tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9188592134811756174.post6908520901141535351..comments2012-06-12T08:39:31.578-04:00Comments on Learning to LIVE: GadsAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15866541583741467239noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9188592134811756174.post-78082367337034617652008-11-26T13:17:00.000-05:002008-11-26T13:17:00.000-05:00"It is simply awful to watch your child struggle- ..."It is simply awful to watch your child struggle- and yet not really be able to help...." <BR/><BR/>Yes, my child. It is truly simply awful.<BR/><BR/>I love you,<BR/>MomNanny Pathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10039488279498924895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9188592134811756174.post-40041913196448405142008-11-21T08:42:00.000-05:002008-11-21T08:42:00.000-05:00Kris - I'm sorry to hear you had a rough night. I...Kris - <BR/>I'm sorry to hear you had a rough night. I know it's probably just one of many. I am glad that you can share it. Just want you to know you are not alone - I can relate to so much of your struggle. Fortunately, my girls are younger, but they both went through unique struggles of their own with their Dad being gone. They still do, but it does get better. For us, our life is so much better together without the fussing and fighting - tension all the time. The girls are happier, except when they're sad. And they NEVER used to be sad that we saw. And, of course, as their mom and primary care givers, we're the only ones who see that part or have to deal with the pain head on. We are the bad guys. I have already heard comments about wanting to live with Daddy. The first time, it broke my heart - but now I have more perspective and understand where that comes from. I can say that the time we have together is a true gift and it is so much richer now that we don't have so much "weight" to deal with. None of it makes much sense to me. I just want you to know you're not alone. I am really looking forward to spending time with you this weekend.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9188592134811756174.post-3819726712291921072008-11-20T10:58:00.000-05:002008-11-20T10:58:00.000-05:00Kris -I hope that you ALL got some sleep last nigh...Kris -<BR/>I hope that you ALL got some sleep last night.<BR/>I will be praying for you all this morning as I work on some things.<BR/>I'm sorry that your evening was so difficult. If there is anything we can do, please don't hesitate to ask. I know we've not been here for all of this and don't know about it all, but we are praying for you and are here if you need us.<BR/>in HIM -<BR/>Mindy<BR/><BR/>oh, and you can pull off 'gads' if you want to.....but this way southern girl might not get it....=)Mindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03592627780339395321noreply@blogger.com